Unlike what you always see in the movie, a great threesome doesn’t just happen naturally. Just like a long lasting and meaningful relationship, a threesome that worth memorizing requires a lot of effort and work. Recently, the staff on a few most popular tinder for couples and tinder for threesomes have received a slew amount of questions about how exactly to plan a great threesome. Thus today, as the founder of one of the most famous threesome dating platform with more than 10 years of threesome dating experience, I will talk about the most useful tips about what makes a great threesome.
Be prepared.
Ask yourself why you want to try out having a threesome. Well, most of people might answer: “I just like to try out new things and experience it!”. That’s not what I mean. Let’s think about the deeper reason. What is your sexual preference that made you want to be a part of the threesome world? Is it because you like wife sharing or wife threesome? Or you are open minded enough to have two naked bodies around you in the same bed? Or it’s just because you are into bisexual dating, kinky dating or polyamorous dating? Figuring out the reason why you have the idea of trying out threesome will help you enormously in the experience later on. Also, don’t over fantasize it, since the higher your expectations are, the bigger chance you will be disappointed.
A compatible third.
Whether you are couples seeking women or women seeking couples, having a compatible three way partner is always the most important factor to a good threesome. Even though it might seems to be a little bit tricky to find the one who is willing to join you guys in the bedroom at first, but with some patience and skill, you get eventually get there. There are basically three ways for you to find the suitable three way partner: pick someone who you are acquainted with; go to the local club flooded with swingers; register on the online threesome dating app.
Set the ground rules.
Now you might ask: I am just trying to have fun instead of doing some math problems. Well, I get what you are saying, but being physically intimate with more than one person can lead to more possible problems than you might think! As we all know, if you are a couple who is interested in the swinging lifestyle, jealousy is the most possible problem that you might encounter. Thus it is of great importance to set the ground rules with your partner and the third one to list out all the problems you might encounter as well as solutions.
Be confident.
Being self conscious is totally natural when you are getting naked in front of two pairs of eyes. But who care? The whole point is to have fun right! Be confident and enjoy yourself.